There is no guaranteed way to know if a person truly loves you, but there are a few signs to read in order to figure out what is on the mind of your loved one. If you would like to know if the person you love truly loves you back, then you have to pay attention on how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you are together.
Though love may mean something different to every person, there are many ways to tell if a person truly loves you, just has a crush on you or just being momentarily infatuated with you.
Well when you fall in love with someone. Notice how she/he acts.
1. See if the person can act naturally around you. Part of being love means being completely open to the other person. If you find yourself seeing a whole different side that the person doesn't show the public, then that may be love. For instance, if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a more goofy and silly side when you're alone, then she/he is really opening up to you and loves you.
* If the person shares his or her deepest emotions with you and is comfortable with it, then that is love.
* If the person is comfortable not looking perfect, tripping, or having food stuck in his or her teeth around you, that means she/he is okay if you see every side of him or her.
2. Gauge if the person is happy to be around you. This should be true even during a bad day. If your loved one has had a very bad day but lights up when she/he sees you, then that's a sign of love. If she/he is in love with you, then the sight of you or the sound of your voice is guaranteed to make him or her feel better — if only a little bit.
* The next time she/he is grumpy or has a bad day, see how she/he reacts in your presence.
3. Notice if the person gives you googly eyes. Though this may be silly, check out your loved one's face the next time you see him or her. Does she/he look at you in a goofy, watery, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "googly-eyed"? You will know it when you see it. You won't get this look all the time — you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table.
* You may also be able to catch the person staring at you with the same expression.
4. See if the person is giddy around you. Love makes people feel giddy, weightless, and like laughing for no reason at all. If you see the person acting this way in your presence, then this may be love. Does your loved one seem hyper, excited, and on the verge of laughing for almost no reason at all whenever she/he is around you? If so, then this may be love.
* If you've said something barely funny and the person cracks up, then she/he may be lovesick.
* If the person shows nervous energy or fidgets around a lot around you, then she/he may just be excited by your presence.
5. Ask yourself if the person is upset when you are. If you are suffering unbelievable emotional pain or are just bummed because you have the flu, then this should rub off on the person who loves you. If she/he truly loves you, then she/he will absorb some of your negative emotions and will be very upset because she/he will want you to feel better as soon as you can.
* Though she/he doesn't have to be as upset as you are, the person should clearly be affected by your mood because all she/he wants is for you to be happy.
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